How goes it? I slept in and today, I am giving myself permission not to feel any kind of way about that, except for grateful.
I went to bed soooo late last night. I will get back on track this evening.
I was talking to my bestie. When I called her, she picked up the phone laughing. So of course, I started laughing and we had a good talk.
Per the norm, we covered it all.
I drove to pick up my daughter from work so she got to talk to her too a bit before we hung up.
We talked about boundaries and I have mentioned those of late as well.
And how I need not only to set them with others but also with myself.
And I realized I don't even know what some of them are or need to be. So today, I am going to write out that list.
It's not going to be a huge one, and it's not meant to be a dis on anyone else I need to set said boundaries with, it's about me ya know? And what's best for me. And what's best for me may change.
And today, I want to do a VisionList for the year. I want to set some goals and have them in front of me.
I found an apartment complex we might want to get into. It will all depend on if what we want will still be available when we're looking.
But it gave me some hope.
I put up a fucking status asking if people knew of any private listing companies and everyone and their fucking brother had opinions.
I will NOT go through FB marketplace. I will NOT be looking to buy a fucking house anytime soon. Oh my God, just answer the fucking question and leave your opinion at the door please. I didn't ask for your opinion or for advice, I asked if anyone knew where private listings could be found.
Jesus.
So annoying.
I literally do think that my biggest pet peeve is unsolicited advice.
I do have people who I ask for advice. And I am not to proud to ask for advice from people I feel may have something of value for me.
But unsolicited? That drives me nuts.
That's a person assuming they know something they don't...about me, about my situation.
It may sound crazy to some that I wouldn't want to buy a house but think about it. With my income, I would only qualify for a matchbox house, which I don't want. Utilities cost a fortune when you own. There are property taxes to consider. There is homeowners insurance, which I believe might be rolled into the mortgage? I have to purchase equipment such as a lawnmower and snow blower and if the water heater goes out...guess who has to come up with the money for that?
It is no longer my dream to own. I'm too old. I give no fucks about that. That's other people forcing their dreams on me. Renting, at my age, is just easier.
Anyways, I am so happy. The sun is shining so bright. I have things to keep me busy and tonight, when I go to bed, I'll still have two more days off.
Yay for two more days off.
I intend to enjoy each of these days, to live fully in the moment and to go at a steady pace.
And what gets done, gets done.
It's all good today.
I'm OK.
I hope you are too. I genuinely do.
Be Blessed.
Love & Light,
Neecie
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